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26 March, 2005
Red Lake Massacre: Another American School Shooting
On Monday the USA suffered yet another episode of what is
now commonly known as “school shootings”. In Red Lake, Minnesota,
16-year-old Jeff Weise shot and killed his grandfather and
step-grandmother, then drove to a school where he killed
seven more people.
Students of the school described Weise asthis should not
be a surprisea victim of bullying. This relatively new
phenomenon obviously causes a lot of pain. But it shouldn’t
cause confusion.
The perpetrators of these tragedies seem to be transmitting
at least one message very clearly: stop the bullying. Bullying
is, very obviously now, not merely an adolescent rite of
passage or an unfortunate reality of school life. It is
a crime with very, very devastating results. So I hope that
the cruel people who abused Weise, and who evidently learned
nothing from the Columbine massacre, learn something from
this week’s slayings.
American school shooters are suicidal. This may sound insensitive,
but I think the key to this phenomenon lies more in the
suicides than the homicides. Obviously, suicidal people
do not feel fulfilled. Many people take their own lives
every year. But they are not front-page news because they
do not take a dozen people with them.
One must ask, if these killers were not suicidal, would
they still so callously murder innocent people? It seems
plain to me that these people kill others because they know
ahead of time that they won’t have to face the consequences.
So, how can society help these people feel fulfilled, so
they don’t go on killing sprees?
Weise had a difficult family life. His father committed
suicide and his mother had been living in a nursing home
since suffering brain injuries in a car accident. What can
we learn from this? That maybe a loving and attentive family
can help someone grow up functionally. While this happened
in Minnesota's second-poorest Indian reservation, the families
of Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold (the Columbine killers)
were not remarkably poor.
Forgive me if I sound traditional here, but I think what
society needs is good guidance. Don’t Christians say that
a sinner has “strayed from the flock”? A human being inevitably
takes role models as it matures. We need to examine the
role models being provided to our young humans.
The USA’s leader is a swaggering cowboy who solves problems
with bombs. Clearly he is not a good role model. Even California,
one of the USA’s most progressive states, elected as governor
an actor who has committed unspeakable violence on-screen.
Also, most popular culture teaches that strength of characters
is bad, and that life’s biggest virtues are wealth, the
approval of others, and sex appeal. Weise had none of these.
But in the face of negative role models and callous materialistic
culture, there is something that can shine through to youths:
parents. Of course, young people are still autonomous individuals,
but discipline, example, instruction, and love can go a
long way towards influencing young people in positive directions.
Forget trying to be a “cool” parent. The idea of being cool
is part of what causes these tragedies. Instead of letting
entertainment culture teach kids the difference between
cool and nerdy, or rich and poor, we should show kids the
difference between petty and meaningful, between selfishness
and respect. That way there will be less bullying, and less
lashing out.
The very fact that the FBI made reference to “other states
that have had these shootings," shows that this is a growing
problem. So, in the aftermath of Red Lake, let’s genuinely
examine how we are raising own kids.
(sources: cbc.ca and rockymountainnews.com)
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